So you’ve been asked to give a speech at a wedding? Or maybe
you just want to make a speech on your own accord, it doesn’t matter. It also
doesn’t matter if you are the bride, the groom, the best man, the father of the
bride or the maid of honor, it’s still a scary ordeal for anyone to have to go
through. But with the tips I give you in this article, I assure you, you will
feel more comfortable not only writing the perfect wedding speech but
delivering the perfect wedding speech, so let’s get started shall we.
The best way to get a wedding speech started is to thank any
one and every one important to the bride and groom and everyone who helped set
up the wedding. Depending on what your role is, you can spend quite a bit of
time thanking everyone, including the bride and groom’s parents for making the
wedding possible.
Telling a funny story about either the bride or groom is also
a good way to get the speech going smoothly. Make sure the funny story you tell
though isn’t vulgar or terribly rude and don’t go spilling secrets that might
hurt the marriage before it even has a chance to get started. This is not the
time to air dirty laundry to everyone in the family.
Giving the bride and groom some advice that you’ve learned
over the years about relationships, marriage or just general good advice is a
great way to end your speech. If you’ve learnt something over the many years
you’ve lived and you feel like it would benefit the bride and or groom, then by
all means, impart your wisdom to them and the entire wedding reception.
If after reading these tips you still are not sure you can
write the perfect wedding speech, I give you permission to steal someone else
speech and reword it into your own. You will find thousands of websites that
offer free wedding speech templates online (including my blog) and there are
countless books you can buy online and download online right now that give you
really good quality speeches and toasts that you can pick and use as your own.
But the main thing to remember is relax! It’s all a bit of
fun in the end and as long as you don’t insult any one or say anything vulgar
and rude, everyone will think your speech was great.
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